Writing the Connection Request


What it does: gets the request accepted, which is the only job it has.

Run it when: building any connect-flow campaign.

Time: 15 minutes, and most of that is deciding not to write a note.

Depends on: SOP 01 for the profile, SOP 02 for the ICP.




Before you start


The ICP one-liner

Knowing whether the sending account is premium, because it decides everything below

A profile that survives being clicked on




The steps


1. Check the seat before writing a word.

Connection notes only send from premium LinkedIn accounts. On a basic seat the note silently does not go, so if the sender is basic, there is no note to write and this SOP takes two minutes.


2. Default to no note.

This surprises people. Blank requests perform fine, they do not look like a pitch, and Reachium's standard campaign flow deliberately sends none. The note is the exception you justify, not the default you fill in.


3. If you do write one, keep it to 280 characters.

LinkedIn allows 300; leave yourself margin. One soft reason to connect, nothing else. No pitch, no offer, no link, no question that requires homework to answer.


4. Write it as a template, because it is one.

This note goes to hundreds of people. The only things that change per person are merge tags: first name, company, position, headline, location. Never write static text that assumes knowledge of one specific prospect, like a post they wrote. That kind of line is possible, but it comes from a per-lead AI tag, which is SOP 12, Personalizing at Scale.


5. Delete the opener everyone else uses.

"I came across your profile." "Hope you're doing well." "Impressed by your journey." These arrive in every inbox twenty times a week and mark the message as bulk before the second line. Also out: emojis, exclamation marks, em dashes, and the word leverage.


6. Remember the profile does most of the work.

Most people decide by looking at who you are, not by reading the note. A headline that names their problem outperforms any 280 characters you could write. If acceptance is low and the note is clean, the profile is the thing to fix.


7. Respect the ceiling.

25 connection requests per account per day, hard. If the plan needs more, it needs more senders, not a bigger number. See SOP 03.


8. Run the humanize test.

Read it as the recipient. Would you believe a busy person typed this? If the line could appear in a thousand automated messages, it will be read as one.




Do this / Not this


Do this

Not this

Send with no note by default

Assume a note always helps

Check the seat is premium before writing one

Write a note that never sends from a basic seat

280 characters, one soft reason

300 characters of positioning

Merge tags for the only variable parts

Static text about "your recent post"

Fix the headline when acceptance is low

Rewrite the note for the fourth time

One sentence per line

A paragraph

Plain words

"Leverage", "synergy", "game-changer"




If you write a note, the shape


Hi {{first_name}}, I work with {{position}}s in [industry] on [the one problem].

Thought it was worth connecting.


Two lines. No ask, no link, no hook. The ask lives in Message 1, after they have already said yes.




Done when


The decision about a note is deliberate, not accidental

If there is a note, it is under 280 characters and contains no pitch and no link

Every variable part is a merge tag and the copy reads well if a value is missing

No cliche openers, no emojis, no exclamation marks

Daily volume fits inside the 25-per-account ceiling

It passes the humanize test out loud


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